Personal Life Coaching: Resonate what you want to attract.

The key to the law of manifesting is to acclimate yourself to a specific vibration and allow the universe to orchestrate matching vibrations. That is how the universe/life works. The universe has always been responding to your specific resonance or vibration. It resonates to you.

People who are constantly complaining, criticizing, condemning, and blaming others and/or circumstances for their personal failures have firmly established a beacon of frequency that emits from their core outward -- into the ethers. The ethers collect that frequency and then mirrors it back to them in the form of what we call “reality.” The dismal reality of one failure after another is manifested by these individuals who are unknowingly sabotaging their own success by their own thoughts, speech, and attitude.

On the flip side, when you accept things as they are, rather than resisting or reacting to them with severe judgment, you won’t allow them to have a negative effect on future events. You don’t become “stuck” in the past by recreating it, over and over, as was depicted in the movie, “Groundhog Day.” Remember that you are always projecting a frequency to the universe based on your own thoughts about a thing, subject, situation, person, or event in your daily life.

Most individuals don’t believe that you can easily attain your goals without stress, conflict, or drama. They say, “Life is stress.” In truth, life is not stress, but it is the reaction or resistance that we give to it that creates the stress in our bodies. People who go through life constantly stressed out about this drama or that problem are causing tremendous harm to their body’s immune system, hormonal regulation, and ability to repair and rebuild tissue and cells. They are on their way to a chronic state of dis-ease. That’s simply the way the body’s divine intelligence works.

When you learn to stop reacting to every challenge that comes your way, you’ll soon realize that the problems that you are accustomed to having will stop being created -- by you. That’s right. All problems are created by ourselves, not others, and certainly not by life. Life is not designed to be one long series of problem solving, combined with stress, anxiety, and disappointment.

One of the most common statements I hear from people who attract failure to them is: “It’s always something.” This statement is frequently repeated by those who frequently fail at everything they set out to accomplish. But little do they realize that it is they who are ensuring their own failure because their resonance is completely aligned with the truth of their own divine power of manifestation. And that negative frequency continues to attract to them the same "like frequency." Thus, their failures continue to manifest as their reality.

Jason Lincoln Jeffers is a spiritual counselor and personal life coach. His online life coaching program incorporates pain-body counseling, wellness coaching, law of attraction coaching, relationship coaching, and astrology readings. As a result, his spiritual counseling sessions will enlighten, inspire, and empower you to realize your physical, mental, and spiritual potential.